Kongu Wedding
"The Elder-Led Union"
An agrarian wedding tradition that preserves ancient Dravidian customs, where community elders conduct ceremonies without external officiants, emphasizing self-sufficiency and village interdependence.
The Ritual Journey
Follow the sacred path from beginning to blessed union
Traditional Attire
The garments that define the celebration
BrideKongu Podavai
Traditional SilkNine-yard silk saree in maroon or red
GroomVeshti & Angavastram
Traditional dhoti with silk upper cloth
Sacred Ornaments
Each piece tells a story of heritage
neckThali
"Sacred Thread"
Traditional gold thali tied during the ceremony
earJimikki
"Bell Earrings"
Traditional bell-shaped earrings that sway gracefully
armVanki
"Armlet of Strength"
V-shaped armlet worn on the upper arm
The Wedding Feast
Kongu Virundhu — Banana Leaf
Simple yet nutritious agrarian feast emphasizing locally grown ingredients
Serving Order
Signature Dishes
Arisi Paruppu Sadam
Rice cooked with lentils and mild spices - humble yet nourishing
Kozhi Kuzhambu
Traditional chicken curry for non-vegetarian families
Thengai Payasam
Coconut milk pudding with jaggery
Appam
Fermented rice pancakes
Naiyandi Melam
Traditional percussion ensemble for auspicious occasions
What Makes It Unique
Elder Led
Ceremonies conducted by respected community elders (Arumaikaarar)
Village Roles
Traditional roles for village barber and washerman in blessings
Agrarian
Emphasis on 'We eat what we grow' philosophy